Toys & Tips To Feed A Girl's Love Of Building, Math & Science

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As a girl I was very into math, science and building. I played with my brother's LEGO way more than he did. I didn't really care for playing with dolls except if we were going to line them up by height or organize them in some other way. I loved puzzles and problem solving and constructing forts.... More »

Tip: Talk Frequently with Girls about Math | Jezebel

It turns out there's a perfectly reasonable explanation behind the glaring under-representation of women in science and math related fields. It has absolutely nothing to do with aptitude — it's all about conditioning, specifically, the manner and frequency with which mothers talk to their daughters about math.

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This is an interesting read including a study that showed parents talk with their sons more than their daughters about math-related concepts. Remember to include math (even things like "here are 5 raisins" when feeding your toddler) in your interactions with your daughters.

Tip: Share your Interests and Strengths

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If you were a girl who excelled at math or loved to build, make sure your daughter knows this and share your interests with her. If you weren't great at maths and sciences, try not to focus on what you couldn't do ("I was never a math person...") and find something you can share with her (e.g. cooking, puzzles, games) that has a math component.

Tip: Provide Exposure to Role Models

Kim K and Lindsay Lohan are in the news all the time but are definitely not the kind of role models I want for my daughter. Instead share with her female leaders in maths and sciences. I plan to make a list of these soon but in the meantime here is a link to the "Top 10 Greatest Female Scientists."

Tip: Count it at the Counter

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Turn everyday activities into a learning opportunity. A good math tip is to let your daughter buy something with her own money and don't let them leave the counter until they can count their change correctly.

Toy: LEGO

This special set contains 650 colorful LEGO bricks you can use to build almost anything. The only limit is your imagination! Includes bricks in white, orange, red, blue, yellow, brown, black, dark green, and light...

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No need to buy LEGO Friends, the new pink & purple & girly line designed especially for girls. Buy regular LEGO sets & get down on the floor building with your daughter.

Scarlet: Have you tried the new "Legos for Girls?

Eden Godsoe: I go back & forth on LEGO for girls. I'm thinking regular LEGO will do just fine. In fact I have a LEGO playdate with my daughter tonight - no pink & purple LEGO...just her older brother's stuff. That being said, if the LEGO Friends line gets a girl interested who otherwise wasn't, I think that is a good thing.

rkfellows: All LEGOs are wonderful, including Friends.

Becky Margetts: I don't think it's constructive to have a separate lego product for girls - surely that's conditioning them that they need a different, prettier, safer product? My father made a point of buying me boys toys, clothes, books and sweets as a child so that I didn't hold myself back or feel less able. I desperately wanted lego technic... Why has the world gone pink-crazy over the last few years anyway? I'm sure girls used to only have pink in moderation!

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Toy: Train Sets

This expansion track throws some additional curves into the train table layout, offering plenty of possibilities for new and exciting routes Thomas and the other engines and cars can take. 15 pc set.

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We bought my son crazy amounts of Thomas the Train railway sets. He has since outgrown them but I am excited to introduce train sets to my daughter.

Toy: Marble Run

A marble run delights young and old, an ever popular toy. Youngsters design the paths and then watch as marbles do the rest: rolling through flippers, around and down funnels, across castle ramparts, spiral ramps, and landing in catch-all hoppers....

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We don't yet own any Marble Runs but this toy comes highly recommended from fellow moms of girls including Tracy W.

natasha: My daughter is 8 and she LOVES marble runs. We have the Quadrilla sets which I purchased from Fat Brain Toys. I love constructing runs with her. It's all physics and engineering.

Toy: Jigsaw Puzzles

Enjoy passing the time as you piece together this 14" x 19" colorful, ocean scene that features a beautiful Gray Shark. The thick durable pieces of this 100-piece puzzle make it great for children ages 6 and up.

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I was surprised when my daughter wanted to help me with my jigsaw puzzles (yes...I'm a nerd.) She was really good even with my 1000+ piece puzzles so I have since bought her some 100+ piece puzzles to do on her own.

Marinka: my daughter loved puzzles!

Toy: Citiblocs

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These blocks are amazing - as a next step from little kids blocks. These have been fantastic for ages 7, 8 and even 9. They are all the same exact size and they can build the coolest stuff with them. You can build cantilevered structures, domes, etc. They never get tiring. Even I like to build with them. We started with 200 but ended up getting another set of 200 because they were so great.

Toy: Magformers

Explore and experiment with these two geometric shapes, the square and triangle to create simple and complex 3-D models. Build hundreds of 3-D Designs with these vibrant rainbow colour pieces.

Thank you to my cousin Stacey for this suggestion. I hadn't heard of Magformers but love the idea of combining building and magnets into one learning toy for girls.

Toy: Snap Circuits

Curious young minds can learn the basics of electronics as they build more than 100 exciting projects with this kit. Work on projects that make sound effects, engineer different types of alarms, build touch circuits and play games.

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This sounds amazing and came highly recommended from a mother of 3. A fun way to teach your daughter about electronics.

Toy: The Young Scientists Club

For children between the ages of 5 and 12 to develop a love for science by exploring science through exciting and thrilling experiments that will spark an interest in future scientific endeavors.

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How fun for your daughter to receive a monthly kit that focuses on different science topics such as recycling, magnets, electricity or water. Kits are less than $20 (including shipping.)

Toy: Magna-Tiles

Magnatiles Clear 100 pieces. Free Shipping and Free Gift Wrap. Save at WhatSheBuys, a 5 star rated, authorized retailer of Magna Tiles and other world class brands.

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These are a hit with boys and girls from 3 on up. They never tire of seeing what amazing new things they can can construct.

rkfellows: I LOVE these. My local Children's Museum has some and I always have to spend some time playing with them.

Toy: Ello Building Kits

Combines craft, construction and design activities in one box, allowing kids to make any number of personal creations with their own hands

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My daughter was indifferent to the snap-together building toys that many children play with. She was drawn to the pastel blue color of the Ello pieces as well as the curves. Here is a photo of a shadow box where she used the Ello pieces to create space creatures.

Eden Godsoe: I hadn't heard of these building kits so thank you for suggesting. Good news is that I did a search on Amazon and found they sold a number of Ello kits including this one called "Ello Aquaria People Places & Things Set" for under $60 - http://www.amazon.com/Ello-Aquaria-People-Places-T...

Toy: Meccano

Let your imagination run wild. This set includes 260+ parts, tools and detailed assembly instructions for 8 models and 17 suggestions.

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I loved my meccano set - it teaches vital engineering design concepts and basic practical skills. When I started work with an aerospace company I was amazed to see a consultant trying out designs on a 50's meccano set in his office!

Toy: Gears! Gears! Gears!

Gear up for hours of colorful action with this 150-piece set that enables children to create hundreds of three-dimensional construction possibilities.

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My daughter loved playing with these and they can be made is so many different combinations.

Activity: Cooking

If cooking is something you enjoy doing, you can weave math and science into that activity. Something as simple as baking chocolate chip cookies can teach a girl about measurement, ratios, time, etc.

Activity: Chess

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I used to play chess a lot with my dad when I was younger. I really enjoyed it! It's a great game for logical thinking, problem solving, and strategizing. Not to mention, I loved science and was good at math in school. I still enjoy both :)

Activity: Fort Building

This is a great way to engage your children in imaginative play, especially on extremely hot or rainy days. Blanket forts can be even more fun by adding friends or sleeping all night inside the fort.

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I consider myself a master fort builder. It is so fun getting really into building a fort with your kids and also gets them thinking about how to construct and balance things.

Activity: Girl Scouts

Girl Scouting builds girls of courage, confidence, and character, who make the world a better place.

When I was little, I was a Brownie (what we call young Girl Scouts in Canada) and loved it. Such a great way for girls to feel empowered and explore their interests including science, math and the outdoors.

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Becky Margetts added:

 I loved my meccano set - it teaches vital engineering design concepts and basic practical skills. When I started work with an aerospace company I was amazed to see a consultant trying out designs on a 50's meccano set in his office!

Toy: Meccano

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Let your imagination run wild. This set includes 260+ parts, tools and detailed assembly instructions for 8 models and 17 suggestions.

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SkinnyScoop Team added:

 How fun for your daughter to receive a monthly kit that focuses on different science topics such as recycling, magnets, electricity or water. Kits are less than $20 (including shipping.)

Toy: The Young Scientists Club

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For children between the ages of 5 and 12 to develop a love for science by exploring science through exciting and thrilling experiments that will spark an interest in future scientific endeavors.

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jcahill added:

 PLTW is America's premier provider of Science, Technology, Engineering, & Math (STEM) curriculum. PLTW programs can be found in 4,200 schools in all 50 states and D.C. Students who take PLTW courses receive a strong foundation in the STEM areas and a proven path to college and career success. Visit pltw.org to find/start a program in your district.

Activity & Resource: Project Lead The Way (PLTW)

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Project Lead The Way provides world-class curriculum to middle & high schools around science, technology, engineering, & math. The hands-on, project-based learning is engaging and opens student's eyes to fields they would not normally be exposed to.

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Logan Stewart added:

 Discovery Place is a science museum for children and families located in uptown Charlotte, North Carolina, and is one of the largest attractions in the state. If you aren't in NC, you can probably find similar places and camps near you.

Activity: Summer Camps like Discovery Place Girls' Science Camps

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Discovery Place in Charlotte, NC just got a grant to put on girls' science camps for 6 weeks focusing on STEM education, and female scientists will speak to campers about how they got started with their careers.

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Larissa added:

 A must-read for parents, this Amazon reviewer says: What will this book teach your daughter? That she can work out math problems by herself. That she can learn to love math, and even excel at it. And that she can do these things while still being every bit as girlie as she wants to be. Makeup and math? Yes, this book says, you can love them both.

Resource: Math Doesn't Suck

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From a well-known actress and math genius—a groundbreaking guide to mathematics for middle school girls, their parents, and educators

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jacquiewhitt added:

 My daughter was indifferent to the snap-together building toys that many children play with. She was drawn to the pastel blue color of the Ello pieces as well as the curves. Here is a photo of a shadow box where she used the Ello pieces to create space creatures.

Toy: Ello Building Kits

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Combines craft, construction and design activities in one box, allowing kids to make any number of personal creations with their own hands

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GWIZ - Sarasota added:

 Interactive, hands-on learning is a key differentiator in the ability to grasp a math or science concept better and in motivating taking learning to the next level. Give a child a paper to work on and they watch the clock, resulting in lackluster performance. Instead, give them something to interact with, like a math game or science experiment.

Acitivity: Science Museums like GWIZ

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GWIZ - The Gulf Coast Wonder & Imagination Zone in Sarasota, Florida is a science and technology center that is dedicated to sparking imagination and being the gateway to a lifelong learning in science.

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oneword added:

 Turn everyday activities into a learning opportunity. A good math tip is to let your daughter buy something with her own money and don't let them leave the counter until they can count their change correctly.

Tip: Count it at the Counter

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GamingAngel added:

 GamingAngels.com has launched a scholarship giveaway for one girl to attend National Computer Camp. I volunteer at Digigirlz, a program from Microsoft (click on this image to learn more.) At www.GamingAngels.com we encourage kids to make games with Kodu (more here - http://research.microsoft.com/en-us/projects/kodu/ ).

Activity: Computer Camps

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Ellen Vossekuil added:

 Zoo education departments offer a host of programs relating to animals, habitats, and the environment. They talk about animal adaptions, biomes, climate change; the list is extensive. These classes are more interactive than simply watching nature shows on TV, since kids often get to see the animals in person at the zoo.

Activity: Zoo Programs

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Ellen Vossekuil added:

 Science doesn't have to just be about experiments and microscopes. WIth more kids living in urban settings, exposure to nature and the animal kingdom is a must! ZooBooks is a wealth of animal information in age-appropriate formats. I am a (female) zoo keeper and I ate up ZooBooks as a kid!

Books & Magazines: ZooBooks

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jlavina added:

 Brainetics teaches children both mental and real-world organizational skills; how to identify complex patterns in numbers; improves memory, concentration, and math skills; and add, subtract, multiply and divide complex problems in your head. Most of all, it increases children's confidence through the new skills they've learned.

Brainetics

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Tammy Gordin added:

 I have a blog where I have posted a lot of science & space poetry. Many comments state this is a great way to get kids interested in space & science. I am a woman with degrees in English & Aerospace engineering. I have been interested in science since I was a girl and got my friends interested in science, space & math.

brm90 added:

 The Junior Tech Organization hosts a great expo for girls as well as various workshops that foster an interest in STEM. This particular group is East Coast (Upper Cape Code area) but there are similar organizations across the country.

Activity: STEM Workshops & Expos

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Jr.Tech’s mission is to engage 5–12 grade students in Science, Technology, Engineering & Math (STEM) education. We encourage & nurture a life-long interest in these disciplines exposure & confidence building.

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Jackie added:

 I used to play chess a lot with my dad when I was younger. I really enjoyed it! It's a great game for logical thinking, problem solving, and strategizing. Not to mention, I loved science and was good at math in school. I still enjoy both :)

Activity: Chess

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Michelle Hutchison added:

 My daughter loved playing with these and they can be made is so many different combinations.

Toy: Gears! Gears! Gears!

Gear up for hours of colorful action with this 150-piece set that enables children to create hundreds of three-dimensional construction possibilities.

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