Tips for Airplane Travel with a Toddler

by Eden Godsoe posted to Travel & Places | 13,096 views

I think the toddler stage (1.5 to 3) is the toughest one for airplane travel. Babies will usually nurse and sleep. Older kids can watch movies or play with an iPad until their eyes fall out. Here are my tips and product recommendations for traveling with toddlers.

Avoid Peak Travel Times

The best times to travel are Mon afternoon through Thurs morning, with Sat thrown in for good measure in the summer. If you have the flexibility, don't book things when all those business travelers are stressed about their work travel.

Buy Your Toddler A Seat

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I highly recommend getting your toddler his/her own seat. Although airlines let children 2 and under sit in a parent's lap, I don't recommend this option for flights over 2 hours or so. You and your toddler will be much happier with an extra seat.

Gabrielle Cullen: This is a personal one to me only because my daughter doesn't want to get up and move around. It's just not necessary for us but I could see how others would love it.

CARES Child Aviation Restraint System

CARES Kids Fly Safe aviation restraint is designed specifically for aviation use for children age 1 and older who weigh between 22 and 44 pounds. These youngsters are old enough to be in their own seats, but are too small for the seat belt alone to...

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Parents rave about the CARES flight harness. So much better than squeezing a toddler car seat in. You can always check the car seat if you need it on the other end or simply rent one along with a rental car.

Jennifer: They keep them safe and IN their seats - with three kids so much easier than the hassle of car seats.

Alli: You can even rent one on ebay if you don't want to commit to purchasing one! Hooray!

Lisa: We have the GoGoKidz Travelmate, and have been happy with it so far (3 long trips). I read the comments on the CARES system on Amazon, and it sounds worrisome -- straps hitting kids in the wrong places, having to disturb other passengers to install it -- so decided it was safer to take the seat. The Travelmate makes that as easy as it's ever going to be -- and saves money on the car seat rental.

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DON'T Preboard

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I know this is controversial but I recommend against preboarding with toddlers. Let them run around the airport as long as possible. If you don't have a carseat to install, no need for much extra time. Or send one parent ahead to get ready.

Jennifer: Saying no b/c you won't get any space in overhead bins if you don't either pre-board (most airlines don't even let you do this anymore) or get boarding A if you are not an elite traveler and get early boarding bonuses - so for say United - it's a good idea to pay for early boarding/baggage/premier security line, etc. so you are not screwed and have some sanity.

Some Airlines Are Better Than Others

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Some airlines are more kid-friendly than others. Virgin comes out high on mothers' lists. The inflight entertainment is one good feature. And the employees just seem to like kids more. You can click on this link to see what airlines other women prefer to fly and share your own favorite.

Lisa: Lufthansa is another good one -- they will let babies under 2 sleep in their bassinets. Their bassinet was just big enough for my long 20-month-old, and was a huge help for sleeping overnight, for naps, and even for a contained place to sit and play. United should be avoided at all costs -- no preboarding for parents, unlike most other airlines (the surly gate agent had the gall to tell me, "children are a gift, not a disability" when telling us we couldn't preboard).

Well-Stocked Diaper Bag

Check out my other list on what to keep in your diaper bag. For airplane travel, pack some extra diapers and ensure you are well stocked on wipes and sacks for dirty diapers.

Bring Something To Suck On

Bring your toddler something safe he/she can suck on - sippy cup of milk or lollypop work well - during take off and touch down. If your child still uses a pacifier, you are home free on this one.

You Can Never Have Enough Snack Foods

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Bring plenty of baggies or tupperware with snacks. Some of my favs: grapes, bananas, dried fruit or raisins, yogurt in easy-to-suck containers, pretzels, goldfish, carrots, cut up grilled cheese or PB&J sandwiches, chicken nuggets (good even cold).

Gabrielle Cullen: I go crazy with this one, just keep it coming!

Related Post on Feeding a Picky Toddler while Traveling

Tips for feeding a picky toddler while traveling.

Suggested by Michelle Hutchison:

Here are some tips I learned from traveling with a picky toddler that I hope can help you as you navigate this frustrating phase with your child, as well!

Combine Snacks & Activities: Cheerio Necklaces

Who can turn down a cheerio necklace? Especially if you purchase the multigrain Cheerio purple box, it's tasty enough to chow down on in front of the television. Better yet, leave in the car when the kids are starving and you don't have anything else...

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Remember candy necklaces? It's fun and kills some time on a flight.

Eden Godsoe: Darya - this is great. I love the efficiency in turning a snack into an activity.

Blue painter's tape

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Suggested by Kelli Agnich:

This is a STAPLE in our travel bag and can be used to make tic tac toe boards on the tray table, hopscotch layouts on the airport floor during delays/layovers, make a collage of photos torn from SkyMall, hang funny items from the ceiling, etc.!

Eden Godsoe: What a great idea. Never heard of it before.

Kelli: It leaves no residue, so the airlines can't complain! ;)

Kelli: can also make impromptu balls, stickers by cutting out shapes, etc. Worth its weight in gold when traveling with toddlers!

Larissa: Either have, definitely something I never would have thought of!

Alli: I never leave home without my blue tape! Keeps the auto-toilets from flushing if you put it over the sensor, keeps shiny-trim pieces in the car from reflecting into kids' eyes, just plain fun to put on a kid's hand and see him try to get it off...I could go on forever!

Jennifer Barbour: Genius! Such a simple, but great idea. Thanks!

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Milk As A Sleep Aid

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The amino acid l-Tryptophan found in milk is thought to play a role in making you sleepy by raising the level of serotonin in the brain. So bring a good no spill sippy cup and let your toddler have plenty of milk.

Jennifer: A myth - not proven fact - plus drinking more makes them pee more (lol!).

Stitch Fix: Yes, yes, yes! Even better, if you're still nursing, covertly stick a boob in his mouth under a pashmina!

Prepackaged Activities From Travel Kiddy

Travelkiddy.com has a great selection of kids travel activities. These are great when flying with kids. We offer the best travel games for kids on the web.

Check out this company for a variety of travel kits for kids of different ages & stages. You can buy one (there are very reasonably priced) or use the contents as inpiration.

Bring Some New Items Wrapped Up

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Buy some smaller things that you can wrap up and unveil as the flight goes on. A fun thing that your toddler can look forward to at intervals. See this Amazon list for ideas like sticker books, easy art supplies, magnetic games & more.

Jennifer: Inventive - will use this during our upcoming trip!

Lisa: My mother always did this when we were growing up -- we flew transatlantic a lot and we always looked forward to the flights! Harder to do for kids under 2 or 3, though -- they don't understand time and the concept of presents over time doesn't mean much.

Alli: I always do this! I even wrap up the toys they already know but maybe haven't seen for a while. It makes it more fun (and it takes up time to open them) to play with even the familiar ones.

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Portable DVD Player For Each Child

Enjoy movies, music and photos on the go with the Sony DVP-FX750 Portable DVD Player. This compact, stylish player includes great features like a seven-inch (diag.) widescreen display, three hours of battery life for extended viewing, and two...

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My children started getting into watching DVDs at about 2 years old. Certainly by 3 they can entertain your child for hours. Don't forget to get good earphones that stay on toddlers.

Gabrielle Cullen: We couldn't live without this. It sucks up 2 hours of our usual 3.5 flight time

Jennifer: Heck yes + NOOK for books and games and mom and dad's phones w/ games - whatever it takes!

Lisa: iPads are great for this -- movies, games, books & pictures.

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17 More Ideas on how to Entertain Kids on Planes

Suggested by CiaoBambino:

With thousands of miles of international travel logged with six kids under the age of ten, these two moms have experienced the good, the bad and the ugly and they're sharing their advice with you.

Ignore Rude People

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People will be rude. It's life. Just ignore them. There will be others on the plane willing to help. And remember - what goes around, comes around. I always try to offer help to other parents travelling with kids.

Larissa: This list is really well done - love the images you chose, especially this one! Your best work yet :).

Jennifer: Or remind the rude people that they get to sit back, read a mag, listen to their iPod, have a drink and be alone while you will be attempting triage w/ toddlers to keep the plane safe and in the air! Oh, do I have stories! :)

Alli: Truth is, the white noise of an airplane drowns out all but the loudest screams for everyone more than two rows in either direction. It may seem like you're the center of the universe holding a screaming kid, but only a few people will probably notice, and the probability of them caring is far less that way.

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More Family Travel Tips from Delicious Baby

The idea of flying with kids is probably the biggest single cause of stress for traveling parents. While we can't promise that your kids won't have a melt down, our travel tips will help streamline your air travel and keep everyone in a better mood!

A good read for some additional tips and details around planning your travels, checking in, getting through security and boarding.

Even More Travel Tips including Handling Toddler Temper Tantrums

This post covers a lot of ground and I particularly like the section on handling temper tantrums, Even the best laid plans may result in a tantrum and Glennia does a nice job providing guidance on how to handle such situations.

Short & To-The-Point Post From A Parent Coach

Kerrie LaRosa, MS, LCSW Parent Coach shares some more advice on travelling with a toddler including getting your child prepped for travel and some good books to read.

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CiaoBambino added:

 With thousands of miles of international travel logged with six kids under the age of ten, these two moms have experienced the good, the bad and the ugly and they're sharing their advice with you.

17 More Ideas on how to Entertain Kids on Planes

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Michelle Hutchison added:

 Here are some tips I learned from traveling with a picky toddler that I hope can help you as you navigate this frustrating phase with your child, as well!

Related Post on Feeding a Picky Toddler while Traveling

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Tips for feeding a picky toddler while traveling.

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Darya Mead added:

 Remember candy necklaces? It's fun and kills some time on a flight.

Combine Snacks & Activities: Cheerio Necklaces

urbankimchi.com

Who can turn down a cheerio necklace? Especially if you purchase the multigrain Cheerio purple box, it's tasty enough to chow down on in front of the television. Better yet, leave in the car when the kids are starving and you don't have anything else...

Like (2) Eden Godsoe promoted this suggestion

Kelli Agnich added:

 This is a STAPLE in our travel bag and can be used to make tic tac toe boards on the tray table, hopscotch layouts on the airport floor during delays/layovers, make a collage of photos torn from SkyMall, hang funny items from the ceiling, etc.!

Blue painter's tape

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